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Sacrifices

I am holding a Cashier’s Check right now for almost $10,000 that I need to take to the bank in order to pay off my car loan.

The Chevy is gone.

And really, it’s not a big deal. I don’t feel any sorrow or sadness, I don’t miss it. It was a good car. I liked the way it looked and drove, but there will be another car one day. I didn’t feel this crazy sense of attachment that some people feel to things like cars.

What I felt was that my family was paying for two cars when I don’t even work and hardly go anywhere.

What I felt was that if I paid off one of our cars, that would be one less thing to worry about.

What I felt was that the money that we were spending on my car note, my insurance and my gas- we could use to do other things whether for ourselves or for Cadence.

Really, what I felt was that sometimes in life you need to make sacrifices for the sake of your family and most importantly, your children. Chris and I have an amazing relationship, and while it hasn’t always been like this we have learned how to communicate and work as a team. So as a team, we can figure out how to make it work with one car.

When I was making the decision to sell my car, and it was my decision, I thought about the many sacrifices that my parents made for my siblings and I. I thought about the many parents today who sacrifice for their children on a daily basis. And mostly I thought about the people out there who don’t even have one car in their family. People who don’t have a roof over their heads. People who don’t have the ability to have a child… and I remembered how blessed we are. Having 1 car doesn’t change who we are. There’s always someone out there who has it the same or worse.

We have a home, we have our health, we have an amazing daughter and we have each other. Really, that’s all we need.

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1 comment to Sacrifices

  • We’ve only had one car as long as we’ve had kids and it works out…you just have to do a little advanced planning and be willing to do a little more driving from time to time. Good luck.

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