My husband and I have a very close family friend, 20-something, football player, college student, great guy, nice personality (sound like a dating show?) looking who wants a girl woman now at some point in the future.

BUT

Said female has to meet his list of requirements before passing the test. He recently came to visit us a few weeks ago and I love visiting with him because he always has girl stories that make me laugh. I think about the time when I wasn’t on the market and my behavior and the behavior of my female peers and it makes me laugh. Sometimes I think girls just don’t change- do they? (In regards to how we behave when it comes to men boys).

Did you see that show on VH1 “What Chili Wants”? Chili, the ‘C’ in TLC had a list of requirements that the man who was going to be in her life needed to have- her friends jokes that she was clearly looking to marry Jesus. Check out our friends list. Ladies, tell me- tell him rather what you think about it. Is this realistic? Is he gonna find that woman? Or should he stop using this list as a guide and let his heart tell him who’s right?

1. She cannot smoke.
2. Have a life plan (as far as what she wants out of it).
3. No kids would be great, but I can handle one.
4. Outgoing personality.
5. As smart or smarter than me (that playing dumb shit is not cute).
6. Has to care about her appearance.
7. Has to have sex appeal.
8. Have some kind of morals.
9. Has to make her own money.
10. Has to be a good mixture of hood & classy.

And this is not even digging into the core of his list. I think during our conversation he mentioned so many other things, but these are the only ones we can remember right now.

Oh, and:

11. He needs someone who can pick him up from the airport on time

(My favorite, by far! LOL I am QUEEN of being late… my husband’s not a fan of that)

This is just part one, the next funny story I want to tell you (in another blog post) is about the girl who thought she was his girlfriend… keyword thought.

So, what do you think? What’s up with people and lists lately? Do you have a list? Is is realistic?

CopyGator. Mmkay? Thanks.

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